On Saturday I went to play a 2/2 live game with my friend (actually more of a mutual friend, we usually play at my friend's house together). I didn't really want to play live since it's slow and dumb and rake is ridiculously high at home games
Before the Game
When I first arrived at the place, I saw Person A playing at Stars in front of the TV on a 5/10 FL 2-7 Triple Draw table. I think I remembered seeing 300 USD in that account but I have no idea who it belongs to. Person B is the host (a big degen who plays 5/10 and 10/20 HU at small unknown poker sites with whales, he told me about his huge swings of 50-70k on some months). Person C is a primary school friend of my friend and Person D is a nit.
5-Max Action
This particular host charged 5% with 60$ cap and rake in 3bet pot pre-flop. 2-3 more fishes were supposed to come but no one else showed up so it was only 5-handed among the 5 of us, with Person A dealing cos it seemed he didn't have too much money. I was busy staring at the total amount of rake and after the first hour there was already 100$ in total rake. Rake was reduced to 3% after the first hour but it broke by the second hour. My friend spazzed off 1500$ within 2 hours, being a complete station and calling off his entire stack many many times. I doubled up but bled away most of my money, only making 130 SGD.
HU Match
Person A challenges my friend to a NL50 HU match but he declines. He knew I'm a 2/4-3/6 reg at Stars but decides to play me anyway. He told me that he does not have enough cash on hand but can pay me back on Stars. I ask him about the amount of money he has and he says $2000. He also says that he played PLO 1/2-5/10 last year and was 100 BI below EV so his money was wiped out. I believed him because he proved to be quite a decent player for someone who claims to not play online NLHE.
The match lasted 2 hours, I was up $200, he won it all back, then I stacked him once and doubled up again after he made a c/r and 3barrel bluff with busted backdoor OESFD and I hero-called on a A62ss9 board with A7 vs his Tc8c. He buys in for another $400 and I win a few med/big pots from him again. I ended up with a profit of 640 SGD (510 USD).
Payment
Before we left the host's house (somehow the host wasn't around cos he went out to do something else while we were battling), A offered to ship the money to me with his Stars account but the computer was locked with the Windows Password. He said that he would try to repay me with another computer and went into the room where D was playing at Stars too.
What would you do?
"Are you willing to trust me or do you want to wait?"
-Host is out and it's 0230, pretty late and I want to sleep so I can grind the next day
-Seems like a decent friendly guy but smokes, and I somehow get the impression that those bunch of friends hang out at shady places a lot like karaoke lounges
Anyway I said ok you can pay me tomorrow, so I asked for his number and texted him. I already did mention my Stars account to him in the cab ride home. He didn't reply for the whole of Sunday and I texted him on Monday morning asking him to repay me.
He asked me for my Singapore bank account number and I gave it to him, then he said he was working late last night and just woke up.
Me: Hey you mind transferring the money to my Stars account?
A: what's your bank account no? My stars account no money.
Me: XXX-XXXXX-X
A: K. Sry I was working last night and just woke up. U also nvr msg me. U going down to the game tmr? Then I pass you there.
Me: Nope I don't play on weekdays (I am staying in sch which is pretty damn far and I do not wish to play live again)
A: Oh ok I'll pass you 140 first and I'm leaving Singapore soon. I'll pass you the rest next month ok? 500.
Me: Ok
A: Thx for the favour. I'll treat you during the weekends to a meal before I leave.
Me: It's ok you don't have to. Here's my MSN/SKype we can discuss some hands
A: I quit poker for now I have a family to support and sch fees to pay. Can't afford to lose. With this mindset I go play sure die. You so rich you can stake me hahah.
Me: You have a wife? How old are you?
A: 21. I have a kid.
A: I'll transfer you the money tmr, Lazy to go out now, need cash deposit. Tmr do it. I'm a bit sick.
Me: Ok.
A: Sorry about that, if I don't want to pay you I wouldn't bother sms-ing you so much already.
So people, What are the chances that I lose my money? I have never really gotten conned before so I tend to be more trusting in such situations but looking back I think I should have been more paranoid and cautious, given how gamblers are so full of shit and deception and degeneracy. When I read the part about him being broke and having a kid, I somehow felt I might be screwed this time. Bullshit? Or trying to gain my sympathy
I guess it's only 1 BI but in real-life terms its actually a huge sum of money and I don't like knowing that I might have gotten free-rolled in the match. Let me know what you guys think, especially those who have experience in getting cheated in similar situations.