Originally posted by DonCorleone369
Awesome Thread! I think this is really what I need ♦
I haven't finished reading your 1st post because I like to have some clarification on the question 1.1 vision: "What do you value the most in other people"?
Just to make sure .. isn't it a bit too general to say "other people"? because according to me that would exist of different "categories" such as parents, family, friends, girlfriends(s) ♦, acquaintances, strangers, etc. and I'm quite sure that what I value the most for each "category" (slightly) differs.
In other words, is it ok to categorize them and write down what I value the most for each category? Also, just to make sure once again ♦... Can I give as many values I like? or should I stick to one value/answer only since you refer to "the most value"? hehe ..
btw.. or did you actually really meant "in general"?
Greetzz and thx again for this awesome thread!
Hey there,
I've added an example of a vision statement on the first page, under "vision". I see that many people strive with making the vision statement long. So they make it short, while they should be making it as long and as detailed as possible. The better you see your goal, the faster you will get there. A longer vision statement will motivate you way more.
To answer your question: Of course different values might be important in different areas of our lives. You will probably expect people in your work environment to have integrity, your friends to be encouraging and show empathy and compassion, your life partner to be honest... But you will see that these values also connect with other areas of your life. You will like to see integrity in friends and family as well, it just might not be as important. And you will want your boss to care a little bit about you, although not as much as your life partner.
There is no wrong vision statement. The more detail you write, the better it will be. Remember, those questions are there to help you identify your values. While this might be a little confusing, by knowing what you expect from others, you can also know what you expect from yourself. So write about yourself and how you want to affect different areas of your life... You can separate the statement into more parts of course. For example, you can write about how you want to influence your family, how do you want to act at work, etc.
The short answer: it is ok for you to categorize values, it is ok to write as many as you like.
Originally posted by Heitzenizer
I'm panicking here.
Just woke up and its's pouring outside. It's a complete storm! My girlfriend took our only umbrella and i don't have a raincoat. I'm on my 4th day of the morning walk and I don't want to ruin it. Can I wait until it stops raining or until my girlfriend comes home with the umbrella, or does it have to be now? 
Just finished reading the parts I hadn't read.
I noticed you mentioned low fat dairy as a good thing, although I'm following a "low carb, high fat"-diet and the importance there with the dairy products, is to choose the stuff with the least amount of ingredients. In other words, stick with the stuff that has the most natural and good fats. Like real butter, cream and regular milk.
What's your take on this?
Don't panic ;). It is important to form a habit, but recklessly going in to the storm without a raincoat or umbrella wouldn't exactly be all that wise ;). Of course there are going to be times when you just won't be able to make it. It doesn't mean that you can't form a habit if you miss one time once in a while because of an emergency. Remember the 80% rule ;). It is true that if you do something every day, it is way easier to form a habit. The more days that you miss, the harder it gets to keep up with it.
You shouldn't feel guilty about missing today's walk. Besides, you could always go for a walk after the storm if you have time. What you should feel guilty about is if there's nice weather out there and you decide that you're too lazy to go for a walk. Then, you can have a serious problem if there's no-one to hold you accountable. By the way, congratulations on taking action! How do those walks feel? What do you think about during them?
As for the fats, well, you will always see different opinions on consumption of full-fat dairy. My personal opinion is to avoid big quantities of dairy in general, because of the lactose and also because the fats in dairy aren't as healthy as the ones in olive oil, coconut oil, fish or nuts. You should stick to your "diet". If it's working for you, if you feel good, then stick to it. You should be using up fats for energy anyway.
You might die 10 seconds earlier, but there shouldn't be all that much of a difference on your productivity if you choose full fat milk over low fat milk. Just make sure you consume it in moderation and focus more on other, healthier sources of fat because those will make you feel better and don't have the unnecessary sugar (lactose). You can of course do more research on this by yourself, see the effects of omega 3, 6 and 9 fats on your body, check out how they are represented in various foods, etc.
Originally posted by rdmnick
Thank you for your reply, I am now wondering why you recommend us to eat less bananas in order to stay away from fructose?
Also, how is the effect much different from eating fruits rather than eating sweets?
In what way did that debate argue that eating a grape every minute would be pretty good?
Personally my metabolism is so fast that it doesn't really matter if I am "not burning energy fast enough" I am also in general quite athletic and lately I have been struggling with getting too few kcal in my system rather than too many.
I am asking you all this because I am interrested and would like to learn. I am not trying to bust your ballz or anything
I recommend to limit fructose because it can have a negative effect on your body if consumed in too large quantities. It can also cause heart diseases. Up to 2-3 pieces of fruit a day should be the maximum for a person who does not frequently exercise. A lot of fructose is also hidden in candy bars, fruit juices, etc. It is the main reason why juices are bad for you. I do not recommend bananas simply because if you eat fruit with less fructose, you can eat more of it, which will prevent starvation and provide you with more vitamins and minerals, so you should feel better.
This does however vary depending on how much you exercise. If you are a professional sportsman, you will actually benefit from consuming more fruit throughout the day because fructose can have positive effects on your body during practise. If you frequently exercise, you should not worry about eating too much fruit (unless you are really eating tons of it) or about the consumption of bananas. Being able to eat more fruit is actually a quite nice reward for exercising.
Well, for example jelly beans have 70% sugars to start with, whereas an apple only has about 10% sugars. And while fruit also has some vitamins and minerals, sweets usually carry a bunch of artificial flavourings, unhealthy fats (in chocolate), sugar syrups and other crap with them. Sweets will spike your insulin way more than fruit.
Consuming a grape every minute is supposed to be similar to taking a sip of a carbohydrate drink, and since during long, intensive exercise like gymnastics practise you keep burning carbohydrates, it is advised to consume fast absorbing carbohydrates in order to retain energy. Despite fast metabolism, I would advise against consuming too much fruit at once as it might make you feel worse.
But you can always try it and see how it goes - it might work for you :). Especially if you exercise a lot and consume too little calories, fruit is a very good source of calories. You can even try dried fruits if you exercise a lot, it will be better than eating junk food just to consume more calories. Since people are different, we react different to different foods anyway. For example, complex carbohydrates in wholemeal pasta are supposed to energize people, while they make me want to sleep. Rice, on the other hand, gives me energy. So don't be afraid to try out different stuff. You have to find what works best for you and then stick to it.