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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

@srna10 - Yes, I played some NL10 too, my advice is to avoid me, because I'm running like a god! _tongue:

Update on Goal Getter Promo: Still no idea, which book to read, but on Saturday I'm going to a marketing seminar and I'll buy one from there. 58k hands played this month, 11 days to go, it's doable! _biggrin:

Last six days were crazy productive, haven't slept more then 7-8 hours on none of the days, watched videos and took notes every day, made session goals, I was focusing on raises/ check-raises, before almost every session I warmed up, then after he sessions I wrote a review, even tried to use a schedule to finish faster with the planned work. I think w34z3l's Academy videos helped me a lot these days. This is the result: _drink:

I never had a red line so beautiful over so many hands, I'm quite happy with it :profit:


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

Goal Getter Promotion: 65k/80k hands played, the last days weren't so good, red-line started going down, I felt demotivated, haven't played so much A-game. The cause it's either winner's tilt or maybe I burned out and my energy is low. The plan for tomorrow is to warm-up as good as possible before the session!
I've started reading a new book: Dianna Booher: Creating Personal Presence: Look, Talk, Think and Act Like a Leader So far I really like it, I've read half of the book in two days, couldn't stop reading. _tongue: My next post will be a summary about the book.

This update is a short one, because I'm tired and I must go to sleep, so tomorrow can be an awesome day! _zZz:


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vonki
Joined: 18.03.2008

Looking forward to the summary, enjoyed the last one!


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

Goal-Getter Promotion: Now I see that my goals should have been for January 5-February 29 period, but I set my goals only for January. So, the two goals for February will be the same: another 80k hands, and 2 self improvement books. _biggrin:
January was an awesome, productive month: completed both my Goal Getter goals!, played 114 hours(biggest volume in the last two years), very little procrastination, took opportunities, treated poker like a pro, reviewed all my marked hands, used session goals, daily plans, reviewed my days, rarely overslept(but still started playing late). Two things that didn't went so well: still bad spending habits and I didn't concentrate as much as I should have on healthy eating!

Summary of Dianna Booher's Creating Personal Presence: Look, Talk, Think and Act Like a Leader book: :D

"Personal presence may be difficult to define, but we all know it when we see it. Someone walks into the room and people step aside. Heads turn. Conversation opens up to include them. When they speak, people applaud or chime in. When they ask, people answer. When they lead, people follow. When they leave, things wind down."

The book contains 4 parts:
1. "How You Look" covers the physical aspects of your presence.
2. "How You Talk" describes powerful word usage in conversation.
3. "How You Think" describes how to control your thoughts, reactions, and emotions.
4. "How to Act" deals with the attitudes, habits, and behaviors that impact your credibility.

Most important ideas, that I memorized:
:diamond: People quickly develop a first impression about you and that is really hard to change. First impression is like first love, you rarely forget it.
:diamond: Either you like it or not people take important decisions based on how you are dressed.
:diamond: Leaders, with strong personal presence don't stand aside and watch things happen, they stand in the center and make things happen.
:diamond: Use pauses when you talk. A pause means that "the next words are important, pay attention!"
:diamond: Gestures aren't optional! People with high personal presence feel what they say, and those feeling are expressed through body language.
:diamond: Passion creates personal presence!
:diamond: If you body language says one thing and your words something different, then your body language will give you away.
:diamond: Get rid of your bad,loser body language, replace it with a confident one. Why? Look like a leader, if you want to feel like a leader.
:diamond: Adjectives and adverbs express opinions, so invites other to counterargument you. Substantives and verbs express facts. Verbs motivate, convince and solicit action.
:diamond: "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people."
:diamond: Your voice's inflections, tonality, intensity, rhythm, pauses and volume can be a very powerful tool for conversation control.
:diamond: If you loose control of your emotions it can negatively affect your relationships and reputation. People with strong personal presence learn how to control their emotions and know when and how to express themselves.
:diamond: Weak people run from responsibilities, strong people accept them.
:diamond: "The secret of being a bore is to tell everything(Voltaire)." Be clear and concise!
:diamond: "Talk to a man about himself and he will listen for hours(Benjamin Disraeli)" What's the magic here? He or she will consider you to be a remarkable person. When you listen to other, you become more agreeable. If you are considered agreeable, you gain more credibility and trust.
:diamond: People with strong personal presence keep their promises.
:diamond: Everybody makes mistakes. The way you correct them makes the difference between the winners and losers.

This book was one of the easiest books I've read. Every information was clear and expressed shortly, it required very little effort to understand everything. It covered some topics, which I never read about and it give me a clear image on what I need to work on.


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

Goal Getter Promotion:
:spade: 10,4k / 80k hands played. My progress is a little bit slow, because I got shingles and it hurts a lot _mad:
:spade: The book I am reading is The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America's Wealthy by Thomas J. Stanley. It's about the spending habits of people. I read 1/3 of it and I already realized a lot of mistakes and bad habits that I constantly make. _drink:

So far I'm break-even this month, but I had some crazy hands that I want to share: _biggrin:

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888 Poker - $0.20 NL - Holdem - 3 players
Hand converted by PokerTracker 4

BTN: $15.26 (VPIP: 70.00, PFR: 40.00, 3Bet Preflop: 14.29, Hands: 23)
Hero (SB): $20.00
BB: $20.00 (VPIP: 61.11, PFR: 11.11, 3Bet Preflop: 7.69, Hands: 18)

Hero posts SB $0.10, BB posts BB $0.20

Pre Flop: (pot: $0.30) Hero has 5♥ A♥

BTN raises to $0.40, Hero calls $0.30, BB calls $0.20

Flop: ($1.20, 3 players) K♥ 4♠ 8♥
Hero checks, BB bets $0.20, fold, Hero raises to $1.00, BB calls $0.80

Turn: ($3.20, 2 players) 2♥
Hero bets $1.80, BB raises to $3.60, Hero raises to $7.60, BB calls $4.00

River: ($18.40, 2 players) 6♥
Hero bets $11.00 and is all-in, BB calls $11.00 and is all-in

Hero shows 5♥ A♥ (Flush, Ace High)

BB shows 4♥ T♠ (Flush, King High)

Hero wins $38.38

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888 Poker - $0.20 NL - Holdem - 8 players
Hand converted by PokerTracker 4

UTG: $20.00 (VPIP: 16.88, PFR: 8.12, 3Bet Preflop: 0.00, Hands: 314)
UTG+1: $20.00 (VPIP: 13.60, PFR: 10.09, 3Bet Preflop: 2.61, Hands: 24,396)
MP: $20.00 (VPIP: 23.46, PFR: 17.79, 3Bet Preflop: 7.05, Hands: 2,020)
MP+1: $18.84 (VPIP: 66.67, PFR: 16.67, 3Bet Preflop: 12.50, Hands: 12)
CO: $21.12 (VPIP: 37.04, PFR: 0.00, 3Bet Preflop: 0.00, Hands: 27)
BTN: $20.69 (VPIP: 17.14, PFR: 14.29, 3Bet Preflop: 0.00, Hands: 35)
Hero (SB): $20.00
BB: $33.14 (VPIP: 20.38, PFR: 11.47, 3Bet Preflop: 3.54, Hands: 318)

Hero posts SB $0.10, BB posts BB $0.20

Pre Flop: (pot: $0.30) Hero has Q♣ T♥

fold, fold, fold, MP+1 calls $0.20, fold, fold, Hero calls $0.10, BB checks

Flop: ($0.60, 3 players) T♣ 9♦ 6♣
Hero bets $0.45, fold, MP+1 calls $0.45

Turn: ($1.50, 2 players) T♠
Hero bets $1.12, MP+1 raises to $2.24, Hero calls $1.12

River: ($5.98, 2 players) 9♥
Hero checks, MP+1 bets $15.95 and is all-in, Hero calls $15.95

MP+1 shows 7♦ 8♦ (Straight, Ten High)
(Pre 40%, Flop 90%, Turn 77%)
Hero shows Q♣ T♥ (Full House, Tens full of Nines)
(Pre 60%, Flop 10%, Turn 23%)
Hero wins $35.99


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vonki
Joined: 18.03.2008

what's shingles? Hope you feel better soon regardless!


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

TY, I copied a definition from the internet:

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Shingles is a disease caused by the varicella-zoster virus - the same virus that causes chickenpox. After you have chickenpox, the virus stays in your body. It may not cause problems for many years. As you get older, the virus may reappear as shingles. Although it is most common in people over age 50, anyone who has had chickenpox is at risk.

You can't catch shingles from someone who has it. However, if you have a shingles rash, you can pass the virus to someone who has never had chickenpox. This would usually be a child, who could get chickenpox instead of shingles. The virus spreads through direct contact with the rash, and cannot spread through the air.

Early signs of shingles include burning or shooting pain and tingling or itching, usually on one side of the body or face. The pain can be mild to severe. Rashes or blisters appear anywhere from one to 14 days later. If shingles appears on your face, it may affect your vision or hearing. The pain of shingles may last for weeks, months, or even years after the blisters have healed.

There is no cure for shingles. Early treatment with medicines that fight the virus may help. These medicines may also help prevent lingering pain.

A vaccine may prevent shingles or lessen its effects. The vaccine is recommended for people 60 or over. In some cases doctors may give it to people ages 50 to 59.

So far as I read a lot of lymphoma patients had shingles during treatment or months/years after treatment. It is very painful for older people(fifth most painful disease), but luckily for me it probably won't be so bad. It appears when the immune system is weak, so now at least I know that I should start paying more attention to myself, because the last two weeks I had a bad sleeping schedule, I was going to bed at 4-5 a.m.


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LorD231984
Joined: 17.07.2007

Hey kidzoltan!

Forgive me if I am a little offtopic at the first:
- I saw you had bought a very good car:). What was the price of it?
Would appreciate if you can tell me:)
You think it is still worth to go germany and buy car there (e.g. from Hungary)?

The more important thing is to get better, it is too bad that you are so young and get so bad luck in nature lotto:/
So keep up, fight back!

And at the end: are you hungarian too?: O
(Cos I think you have good chance to make decent money also in your proffession)

Best of luck!


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

Hi LorD231984! Thanks for writing! _biggrin:

Yes, I am Hungarian, I live in Transilvania, Romania. My car was 8700 Euros, I bought it from Romania, I didn't found one in Germany, maybe because my lack of time and lack of German language skill. I don't know the Hungarian legislation, so I'm not sure if it's worth or not for you to go there for a car. This 8700 Euros included the environmental tax of 1300 Euros. Overall it would have been hard to find a cheaper car in Germany(the prices were 7500-8000, plus I would have had to pay 1000-1300 taxes for the Romanian government), but one of the reasons why I wanted to buy from there was, because usually the cars are in better shape there(better maintenance).
If you have time and you can speak well German it's probably worth it, I have some friends here in Romania, who often go to Germany and buy used vehicles and they come back home and sell them for a higher price.


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

Goal Getter Update: _grin:
:diamond: 30,3k/80k hands played
:diamond: 1/2 books read

The book I finished reading was The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America's Wealthy by Thomas J. Stanley. It did not contain any advice, but the stories and the statistics made me realize what I need to change in order to accumulate wealth. _thumbsup: It was an easy book to read and understand.

Short Summary: _biggrin:
:spade: Many people who live in expensive homes and drive luxury cars do not actually have much wealth.
:spade: Many people who have a great deal of wealth do not even live in upscale neighborhoods.

Wealth:
Most people have it all wrong about wealth in America. Wealth is not the same as income. If you make a good income each year and spend it all, you are not getting wealthier. You are just living high. Wealth is what you accumulate, not what you spend.
Wealth is more often the result of a lifestyle of hard work, perseverance, planning, and, most of all, self-discipline.

Most people with high incomes fail to accumulate any lasting wealth. They live hyperconsumer lifestyles, spending their money as fast as they earn it. In order to accumulate wealth, in order to become rich, one must not only earn a lot (play “good offense”, according to Stanley and Danko), but also develop frugal habits (play “good defense”).

Characteristics of those who build wealth: _cool:
:spade: They live well below their means. In general, millionaires are frugal. Not only do they self-identify as frugal, they actually live the life. They take extraordinary steps to save money. They don’t live lavish lifestyles. They’re willing to pay for quality, but not for image.
:spade: They allocate their time, energy, and money efficiently, in ways conducive to building wealth. Millionaires budget. They also plan their investments. They begin earning and investing early in life. The authors note that “there is an inverse relationship between the time spent purchasing luxury items such as cars and clothes and the time spent planning one’s financial future”. In other words, the more time someone spends buying things that look good, the less time they spend on personal finance.
:spade: They believe that financial independence is more important than displaying high social status.
:spade: Their parents did not provide economic outpatient care. That is, most millionaires were not financially supported by their parents. The authors’ research indicates that "the more dollars adult children receive(from their parents), the fewer they accumulate, while those who are given fewer dollars accumulate more”.
:spade: Their adult children are economically self-sufficient.
:spade: They are proficient in targeting market opportunities.
:spade: They chose the right occupation. “Self-employed people are four times more likely to be millionaires than those who work for others.” There is no magic list of businesses from which wealth is derived — people can be successful with any type of business. In fact, most millionaire business owners make their money in “dull-normal” industries. They build cabinets. They sell shoes. They’re dentists. They own bowling alleys. They make boxes. There’s no magic bullet.

I decided to start writing down what I spend my money on, so I can figure out where could I save more money and how much money I need in a month or year. I recommend this book for those, who feel like they have bad spending habits or for those who at the end of the month always run out of money. _drink:


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vonki
Joined: 18.03.2008
srna10
Joined: 17.12.2010

Nice review :f_thumbsup:


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Zanardi1
Joined: 04.01.2010

Originally posted by kidzoltan
I decided to start writing down what I spend my money on, so I can figure out where could I save more money and how much money I need in a month or year. I recommend this book for those, who feel like they have bad spending habits or for those who at the end of the month always run out of money. _drink:

I don't know if I said this to you or to another user here, but you can begin analyzing the small, repetitive expenses. In my experience, these are the budget-killers.


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

Thanks vonki and srna10!

@Zanardi1 - Yes you wrote to me before and I took your advice, one thing that I cut out from my expenses, was the morning coffee in pubs/bars. Instead I make a black tea at home and go for a short walk with a friend. It's much more energizing and i save the daily coffee money. _thumbsup:

Little update: I started reading a book from Alan Fox, I yet don't know the title in English, but it's about communication and people skills. I can't wait to read it and to write a short summary. Btw this days are all about self improvement, I listened to a webinar about infopreneurism, the whole weekend I'm in Bucharest attending to marketing seminars and next week I'll go to two seminars about starting businesses by Romania's number one speaker, self development coach. _biggrin:


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Zanardi1
Joined: 04.01.2010

Originally posted by kidzoltan

@Zanardi1 - Yes you wrote to me before and I took your advice, one thing that I cut out from my expenses, was the morning coffee in pubs/bars. Instead I make a black tea at home and go for a short walk with a friend. It's much more energizing and i save the daily coffee money. _thumbsup:

Sweet! Have you got a chance to find out exactly how much did you save?

LE: I also began to read The Millionaire Next Door myself :f_cool:


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

Originally posted by Zanardi1

Sweet! Have you got a chance to find out exactly how much did you save?

LE: I also began to read The Millionaire Next Door myself :f_cool:

Not yet, I started writing down my expenses from February 1, it's still too little sample. I probably won't know exactly how much I save, but I will be able to estimate it. I know how much I spent in the last five months, so later I will compare the two sums.

Let me know, if you liked the book and what part did you find the most interesting! _biggrin:


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

It's been a long time since I haven't updated on the Goal Getter Promotion. I finished Alan C. Fox's book, but I didn't like it, it contained little useful information. I decided to not write a summary about is. I read a short book about poker mindset: Secret of the Poker Millionaire by Gordon Gekko, I do recommend this one for every poker player, who needs some motivation or inspiration. It is very short, it can be read in 1-2 hours. _cool:
I decided to start reading the sixth book for January+February(the goal was 4), 7 Strategies for Wealth & Happiness by Jim Rohn and I have to say it's one of the best books I've ever read, it is easy to read, contains practical advice and it is sooo motivating! _biggrin:

Poker and work-ethic: I will finish the 80k hands, no problem with that. What I changed on my work-ethic is that I don't write a daily plan anymore, instead I write a schedule. The benefits are, that I'm much more productive and the daily volume has increased. Another change is that now I have written down 9 things that I need to do every day in order to be successful in a Google Drive Spreadsheet. This 9 things are:
:spade: Wake up early
:spade: Drink lemonade
:spade: Clean room
:spade: Make schedule
:spade: Review
:spade: Watch poker video+notes
:spade: Read
:spade: Train
:spade: Review Day

This last 10 days were awesome, I learned a lot, right now I'm very disciplined and determined to go after my goals! _thumbsup:

And finally a funny hand: _biggrin:

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888 Poker - $0.20 NL - Holdem - 8 players
Hand converted by PokerTracker 4

MP+1: $72.05 (VPIP: 80.00, PFR: 31.43, 3Bet Preflop: 25.00, Hands: 35)
CO: $20.00 (VPIP: 15.46, PFR: 11.90, 3Bet Preflop: 4.38, Hands: 2,863)
Hero (BTN): $37.39
SB: $21.63 (VPIP: 14.67, PFR: 9.90, 3Bet Preflop: 3.29, Hands: 3,812)
BB: $20.00 (VPIP: 18.25, PFR: 13.20, 3Bet Preflop: 3.44, Hands: 9,993)
UTG: $37.23 (VPIP: 13.94, PFR: 10.66, 3Bet Preflop: 6.26, Hands: 6,359)
UTG+1: $20.00 (VPIP: 15.52, PFR: 11.60, 3Bet Preflop: 4.44, Hands: 6,017)
MP: $12.68 (VPIP: 26.39, PFR: 13.49, 3Bet Preflop: 6.15, Hands: 692)

SB posts SB $0.10, BB posts BB $0.20

Pre Flop: (pot: $0.30) Hero has K♥ A♠

fold, fold, fold, MP+1 raises to $0.70, fold, Hero raises to $3.00, fold, fold, MP+1 calls $2.30

Flop: ($6.30, 2 players) 9♦ A♥ A♦
MP+1 bets $6.30, Hero calls $6.30

Turn: ($18.90, 2 players) J♠
MP+1 checks, Hero bets $9.45, MP+1 calls $9.45

River: ($37.80, 2 players) 3♠
MP+1 checks, Hero bets $18.64 and is all-in, MP+1 calls $18.64

MP+1 shows J♦ Q♠ (Two Pair, Aces and Jacks)
(Pre 35%, Flop 5%, Turn 0%)
Hero shows K♥ A♠ (Three of a Kind, Aces)
(Pre 65%, Flop 95%, Turn 100%)
Hero wins $71.33


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Hesticus
Joined: 24.06.2008

I'll sub as well :f_thumbsup: I also like self-improvement theory!


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kidzoltan
Joined: 05.08.2010

I'm back and ready to crush it!! _biggrin:
My starting BR is 1000$ and the goal is 5000$!


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metalmonkey80
Joined: 15.08.2013

Hello kidzoltan,

Welcome back 🙋
Have just spent a hour reading your blog. Congrats on all the challenges you have succeeded in, on and off the tables! I look forward to reading future updates.

Regards

Matt


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