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Tim64
Joined: 03.11.2008

Originally posted by jbpatzer This weekend I watched four movies (!), and played just two HUSnGs as I realized I was a bit drunk and this didn't seem to be helping me with the soulreading. Watched Tron Legacy with the kids yesterday morning (surprisingly entertaining I thought), which condemned me to an afternoon of playing this with number two son, and the The Girl Who Played With Fire in the evening (this was well made, and really similar to the book, but not as good, so I probably won't bother to watch the third film). Woke up this morning to find London rioting again, and the four places marked on the BBC's riot map were Enfield, where I grew up, Edmonton, where I went to school, Walthamstow, where my parents were born and my grandparents lived and died, and Tottenham, centre of the football universe. Is someone trying to tell me something? Can this be a coincidence? Well can it?! Speaking of conspiracies, I'm very disconcerted by the Girah/Jungleman thing (You think Jungleman didn't know? Come on!). Mainly because I was reading a 2+2 thread where they pointed out that having Skype groups where lots of players get together and play one player HU are basically unfair and cheating. And when you see it like that, what are we doing when we have a sweat session? We're basically ganging up on some poor unsuspecting mark. This can't be fair. And when TT coaches me and says 'That's a snap call/fold', and I say 'Surely I have to fold/call', and he explains his reasoning, and I do what he says, and he's right, isn't that unethical too? My moral compass is a bit wobbly this morning. Here's an appropriate song for Girah/Jungleman/anyone who's ever sweated or been coached.

It's pretty grey, I agree. Funny thing is, while buying HHs always seemed obviously wrong to me I never thought sweat sessions were wrong.

Here is one (possible) justification. When we watch a pkr vid or read a poker book, we are arming ourselves with knoweldge to help us beat other players. That is available to these players too, whether or not they choose to avail themselves of it. When TT says "that's a snap fold", he is saying 'in this situation, the thing that will make you the most $ long term, is to fold'. Its similar to reading an article that says, e.g., 'dont set mine for 50bb effective stacks'.

However, nothing guarantees that the piece of advice is correct in particular situation. The snap-fold occasion might actually have been a call (villain might have been bluffing) and you should set mine for 50bb if you can see the other guy's hole cards and he has Aces.

If you do a hand history review and your coach points out a particular situation against a particular opponent where you have been losing money and helps you to fix that leak, it's still going to improve your win rate against that opponent even if the advice doesn't come "real-time". But if we said that too is wrong, we would effectively be saying that all coaching is wrong, which seems to me to be going too far.

I certainly don't see anything wrong with someone sweating you playing a 10 man SnG against mostly unknown players and telling you to fold ATo under the gun. It's hard for me to think there is a moral distinction which kicks in if the advice comes when the number of other players is reduced to 1 (i.e. heads up).

Partly I think it's because the key elements of poker (that there is imperfect information) is still in place. However when you buy hand histories of people or fix it so you can see their hole cards, you are impinging on that fundamental element and that's where -- in my view -- it becomes much less grey and much more black-and-white.

Well, I'm rambling now...


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jbpatzer
Joined: 23.11.2009

If I play online chess against someone rated 1600, and they're sitting there with a GM looking over their shoulder helping them out, I would be crushed ('their', 'there' and 'they're' all in one sentence! How cool is that!). I think that's cheating. How is poker different? Is it really that your coach tells you the right play against Villain's range, not their specific hand? The blanket of variance that covers poker results doesn't seem to me to change the principle. If you were about to open ATo UTG in your 10 man SnG and someone else tells you not to, it's the same as if someone tells you you're about to hang your queen in chess and maybe you ought to move it. The strange thing is that it doesn't feel as bad, and I can't see me never being sweated or coached again, but rationally, I'm struggling to see the difference.


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muebarek
Joined: 31.07.2008

I totally agree! When you have reads on one player and play an exploitative style and then this player has completely different tendencies due to the presence of a coach this can get costly.

While it's usually peanuts in ring games (mostly in the +-1 stack area), I think it's a really big deal on MTT final tables where your ROI is massively influenced by every single decision you make on the FT and then for example herocall for your tourney life vs someone due to grave reads you picked up earlier and now he takes a FT-coaching and the coach levels you - this just plain sucks!

Also really annoying in HU cashgame: 5 people usually see much more than one - especially since playing HU has a lot to do with tilt and psychology and when you're playing a 5 man group it's like playing a very tough bot!


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Originally posted by jbpatzer
Woke up this morning to find London rioting again, and the four places marked on the BBC's riot map were Enfield, where I grew up, Edmonton, where I went to school, Walthamstow, where my parents were born and my grandparents lived and died, and Tottenham, centre of the football universe. Is someone trying to tell me something? Can this be a coincidence? Well can it?!

I just can't decide..


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jbpatzer
Joined: 23.11.2009

Originally posted by gedwashere91

Originally posted by jbpatzer
Woke up this morning to find London rioting again, and the four places marked on the BBC's riot map were Enfield, where I grew up, Edmonton, where I went to school, Walthamstow, where my parents were born and my grandparents lived and died, and Tottenham, centre of the football universe. Is someone trying to tell me something? Can this be a coincidence? Well can it?!

I just can't decide..

Well, exactly. There was plenty of rioting when I was growing up and listening to those songs. Water cannons would sort them out imo. We'll all have forgotten about it by the time the schools open again.

In Turkey, they can control riots with just one policeman. We should ship him over to the UK to help.

Nice to see you back posting in my blog.


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Originally posted by jbpatzer
If I play online chess against someone rated 1600, and they're sitting there with a GM looking over their shoulder helping them out, I would be crushed ('their', 'there' and 'they're' all in one sentence! How cool is that!). I think that's cheating. How is poker different? Is it really that your coach tells you the right play against Villain's range, not their specific hand? The blanket of variance that covers poker results doesn't seem to me to change the principle. If you were about to open ATo UTG in your 10 man SnG and someone else tells you not to, it's the same as if someone tells you you're about to hang your queen in chess and maybe you ought to move it. The strange thing is that it doesn't feel as bad, and I can't see me never being sweated or coached again, but rationally, I'm struggling to see the difference.

The only differrence is at chess EVERYONE will accepted it as a cheat. At poker, I guess not. Poker community (especially poker rooms) must talk each others about it and make a clear rules to to handle this thing.


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Tim64
Joined: 03.11.2008

If you were about to open ATo UTG in your 10 man SnG and someone else tells you not to, it's the same as if someone tells you you're about to hang your queen in chess and maybe you ought to move it.

I disagree. There are times when opening ATo will be correct. If you're playing on a very tight table with one huge fish in the big blind who you know will call any two cards and check/call down to the River with any pair whereas everyone else will fold unless they have QQ+ then in my opinion opening ATo utg would be perfectly good. It's situational -- and not an outright mistake. However there's no matter of opinion about whether blundering your Queen in chess is a mistake not. It's an objective matter of fact.

And because of this I think advice relating to poker and chess can be (but is not always) different in kind. And I think that's where the "greyness" comes in. But the more I think about it, the more I agree with you. Gut instinct tells me that being sweated by a professional in a heads up match, where are your opponent does not know you are being sweated, feels wrong. But I personally don't think it's wrong for someone to sweat you playing a whole bunch of SnGs against the multitude of opponents, giving you general advice on how to play. Can't really explain why it's different but it does feel different to me.


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jbpatzer
Joined: 23.11.2009

Originally posted by Tim64

If you were about to open ATo UTG in your 10 man SnG and someone else tells you not to, it's the same as if someone tells you you're about to hang your queen in chess and maybe you ought to move it.

I disagree. There are times when opening ATo will be correct. If you're playing on a very tight table with one huge fish in the big blind who you know will call any two cards and check/call down to the River with any pair whereas everyone else will fold unless they have QQ+ then in my opinion opening ATo utg would be perfectly good. It's situational -- and not an outright mistake. However there's no matter of opinion about whether blundering your Queen in chess is a mistake not. It's an objective matter of fact.

And because of this I think advice relating to poker and chess can be (but is not always) different in kind. And I think that's where the "greyness" comes in. But the more I think about it, the more I agree with you. Gut instinct tells me that being sweated by a professional in a heads up match, where are your opponent does not know you are being sweated, feels wrong. But I personally don't think it's wrong for someone to sweat you playing a whole bunch of SnGs against the multitude of opponents, giving you general advice on how to play. Can't really explain why it's different but it does feel different to me.

I think your ATo example is a tad contrived, but I take the point. I also think we've established that I would feel bad if I were to play HU whilst being coached by TT, as it's near enough to cheating to be wrong. But I'm also not sure about your 'general advice on SnG's' point. I've never been coached live on SnGs (unless being sweated by Boris counts), but I would imagine there would be plenty of conversations along the lines of 'This is a fold', 'No. You have to call against his range', (or if it's Boris, 'Noooooooooooo!') which are basically the coach making the right play in a HU situation against one opponent.

I'd be interested to know what TT thinks about this. I'll see if I can get him to post something.


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There is a condition where it's 100% ok at chess but not at poker:

Every GrandMaster (GM) spend his study time by learning opponent's games. Sometime they make a circle between friends to work together, and if they found a leak of this spesific opponent (mostly at openings) they will share it each other. It's 100% OK. No chess player have problem with it.

Now, let's compare it with Isildur's case.


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muebarek
Joined: 31.07.2008

Originally posted by patszerdonk
There is a condition where it's 100% ok at chess but not at poker:

Every GrandMaster (GM) spend his study time by learning opponent's games. Sometime they make a circle between friends to work together, and if they found a leak of this spesific opponent (mostly at openings) they will share it each other. It's 100% OK. No chess player have problem with it.

Now, let's compare it with Isildur's case.

Imo, this is ok. You can't really establish rules away from the tables. Everyone can study the game. Every fish could get a lot better within a few days if he read some basic material. And if some friends come together and talk about the game (even analysing one specific player), they do nothing forbidden in my point of view.

But back on the tables, imo, you have to be alone with your decision. You have to think alone, you have to tilt alone etc. Having knowledge (from learning aside the tables) does not automatically mean that you can apply it ingame! In fact I think this is one of the more crucial abilities of a really good player. It has to be guaranteed that players can rely on playing the same player behind the nickname as they played an hour ago! No one would want the passive callingstation suddenly to turn into a highstakes reg once the final table of a big tourney begins.


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jbpatzer
Joined: 23.11.2009

Originally posted by patszerdonk
Now, let's compare it with Isildur's case.

I'm not sure I understand what specifically you mean by this.


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Originally posted by jbpatzer

Originally posted by patszerdonk
Now, let's compare it with Isildur's case.

I'm not sure I understand what specifically you mean by this.

Upss.... my fault. Sorry for not being clear.
I meant the case when Isildur lost millions $ to Hastings. Hastings take advantage by sharing Isildur's HH with friends. I'm not sure we allowed to posting link here, so just googling "Isildur Hastings poker" if you want to read the story.

Sharing HH at poker is comparable with sharing game notation at chess.

@muebarek: good point!


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jbpatzer
Joined: 23.11.2009

Originally posted by patszerdonk

Originally posted by jbpatzer

Originally posted by patszerdonk
Now, let's compare it with Isildur's case.

I'm not sure I understand what specifically you mean by this.

Upss.... my fault. Sorry for not being clear.
I meant the case when Isildur lost millions $ to Hastings. Hastings take advantage by sharing Isildur's HH with friends. I'm not sure we allowed to posting link here, so just googling "Isildur Hastings poker" if you want to read the story.

Sharing HH at poker is comparable with sharing game notation at chess.

@muebarek: good point!

Aha! OK. Not sure I have an opinion on that. I will have to go away and think about it.


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TwiceT
Joined: 15.07.2007

Cheating refers to the breaking of rules to gain advantage in a competitive situation. The rules infringed may be explicit, or they may be from an unwritten code of conduct based on morality, ethics or custom, making the identification of cheating a subjective process

i think all of the above discussed is against the rules of poker rooms. obv if we (jb and me) play live for a vid (or for the book purposes), its cheating cuz 2 brains play vs 1 brain plrs. the fact that i am more experienced doesnt matter, cuz i would be allowed to play those stakes alone anyway.
also, if i make a live sweat coaching video for ps playing with e.g. vonki, its against the rules. not much to discuss. its pretty obvious.

but here is my take on it why i dont think that is cheating:

example from rl. the rules/laws in country A say u mustnt drive faster than 120 km/h on the highway. everybody (>75%) drives 130 km/h. the state doesnt take any consequences up to 145 km/h. so while u are obv breaking the rules and act against the laws, everyone is fine with it.

common law > written law! (at least in country A)

country B might treat it differently and fine u when driving 130 km/h. (e.g. switzerland is pretty harsh in that regard). so here common law doesnt outlevel written law.

in german, we compare "gesetztes Recht" and "gesatztes" Recht. only cuz something is written down, doesnt mean its the highest law. common law often replaces written rules.

back to poker: there are many big poker schools out there, with manyyy live sweat videos. no poker room ever said anything against it, although everybody knows its against the rules. hence, common law replaces written law cuz all market participants are fine with it.

ofc, its sometimes not easy to draw the line, but i can assure you whats going on on higher stakes is definitely way closer to cheating than anything you guys do when sweating each other.

i dont think u get a competitve advantage, cuz all ppl can do sweat sessions and the whole poker community - with all their poker schools out there - are obv perfectly fine with it.

so in the end, u have to ask yourself if u go beyond the unwritten code of conduct of morality.


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Originally posted by patszerdonk

Originally posted by jbpatzer

Originally posted by patszerdonk
Now, let's compare it with Isildur's case.

I'm not sure I understand what specifically you mean by this.

Sharing HH at poker is comparable with sharing game notation at chess.

erm, no it's not


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jbpatzer
Joined: 23.11.2009

Originally posted by goldchess

Originally posted by patszerdonk

Originally posted by jbpatzer

Originally posted by patszerdonk
Now, let's compare it with Isildur's case.

I'm not sure I understand what specifically you mean by this.

Sharing HH at poker is comparable with sharing game notation at chess.

erm, no it's not

Why not?


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tcs35
Joined: 31.01.2009

Originally posted by jbpatzer

Originally posted by goldchess

Originally posted by patszerdonk

Originally posted by jbpatzer

Originally posted by patszerdonk
Now, let's compare it with Isildur's case.

I'm not sure I understand what specifically you mean by this.

Sharing HH at poker is comparable with sharing game notation at chess.

erm, no it's not

Why not?

If by game notation you mean previous games the villian has played then yes it is the same.


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pokerprons
Joined: 30.09.2009

If sharing HHs and sweating were cheating, then how are we ever supposed to perfect our game and become better? Of course I need a coach to teach me lots of new things I never knew existed, but it would be morally wrong because we would have to share HHs... bullshit! And I also disagree on the point that sweating is ganging up on people. I'd like to see anyone gang up on durrrr and try to take his money. Or say couple of us fish "gang up" on TwiceT - he would be more than happy to take our BR lol. What I'm trying to say is if someone has their game perfected to a very high level there's not much a couple of mediocre players (or even better ones because there is only so much they can know about the game) can do to gain an edge on him, and he probably has pretty much the same chance as if he were playing only the guy clicking the buttons.


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Chess game notations are in the public domain- anyone can easily find all the games played in most international tournaments.

Poker HHs are not publicly available, so sharing them with specific people is unfair and against the T+C of many sites.

Morally, I think it has something to do with the fact that it's much easier to exploit someone's leaks once you have discovered them in poker than it is in chess.


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Wriggers
Joined: 21.07.2009

Originally posted by pokerprons
If sharing HHs and sweating were cheating, then how are we ever supposed to perfect our game and become better? Of course I need a coach to teach me lots of new things I never knew existed, but it would be morally wrong because we would have to share HHs... bullshit! And I also disagree on the point that sweating is ganging up on people. I'd like to see anyone gang up on durrrr and try to take his money. Or say couple of us fish "gang up" on TwiceT - he would be more than happy to take our BR lol. What I'm trying to say is if someone has their game perfected to a very high level there's not much a couple of mediocre players (or even better ones because there is only so much they can know about the game) can do to gain an edge on him, and he probably has pretty much the same chance as if he were playing only the guy clicking the buttons.

Well that's exactly what Cole South and Brian Hastings did to Isildur and they managed to take several million from him in just a few sessions, so yes it is possible and yes, in my opinion, it is morally wrong to do so.


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