Hey mortal1ty! good to see you are thinking about taking poker seriously 
I'll give my thoughts in blue below:
Originally posted by mortal1ty
Series of questions:
1.Then it comes to poker software im completely 'green' what are your thoughts on what is it a must have? and what could u reccomend for sngs/tourneys.
Some people might disagree with me, but I really think just equilab (bottom of this page) and Holdem Manager or Pokertracker. People find things like Tableninja and Leakbuster useful but if you are looking for a must have then it will be the bare basics (imo all you need). Specifically for SNGs/tourneys I'm afraid I can't give too much of an opinion because I don't play these, but again it will be HM/PT/equilab and definitely the ICM trainer - you can find these on the page I linked above.
2. I will pick PokerStars as my kickoff poker room just purely because of traffic. If i dont know something i might find relevant please feel free correct me on this choice.
I don't think you can really go wrong with signing up to Pokerstars. Really reliable site, great software, tons of traffic and don't listen to anyone who says there are no fish there. The choice you make shouldn't be based on where everyone else plays just from what you read in the forums though; instead you should do some looking into things like rake, limits, currency, traffic, and if you play tourneys then what sort of tourneys run there. Check out the list of rooms. Just because a room is smaller in comparison to something like Pokerstars - they often make up for it with things like rakeback, really soft player pools and great first deposit bonuses so it is definitely worth it.
3. Ive have seen over the years number of people posting which were high stakes players which decided not connect their profiles on poker rooms with pokerstrategy.com now i do understand the benefits players are getting being connected , any reasons u think of why it might be more beneficial not playing as part of PS community member?
Well it is often the case that people simply hadn't heard of Pokerstrategy before signing up to a poker room. Because of that, they cannot retrack their poker accounts and play as a pokerstrategist there because it is mostly against the terms and conditions of the poker room. I signed up a long time ago to Pokerstars and kick myself for not doing it through Pokerstrategy. I've experienced a few other training sites as well and although each one has its pros and cons, I still always prefer Pokerstrategy and I can't see a reason not to play tracked. The quality and diversity of content (not forgetting the awesome forums!) is much better than any other site in my opinion.
4. Can u recommend any literature from series 'must read' on the texas sngs/tourneys?
Sorry I can't be too much help with this question because it isn't my game. However, I do recommend reading everything you have access to on this page.
Thanks for readin, take care
Hope that helps! Looking forward to seeing some updates from you.
Lewis.