playing low stakes NL holdem, and have a very general Q that may be tough to answer
have played 1000's of hands and am usually successful slowly building my stacks, but no matter how i play big hole cards (AA, KK, QQ, AKs) i lose 9 times out of 10. i've played aggressively (ex. all-in pre-flop) to sneaky(conservative, just call) , and everything inbetween, but almost always lose in this situation. followed this sites strategies, still i lose.
i understand variance occurs, but this seems more of a pattern. can it be that i just get outdrawn 9 times out of 10 solely due to bad luck?