Originally posted by belthazorrrr
Propably i am the last person i should post hereOnce upon a time i was staked from PS member to play sngs. After some hot run in sngs i decide to take a shot playing heads up cash. The result was to loose stakers bankroll and all my bankroll in hus. This happened before a year
I never had the itention to payback. I was feeling bad because i lost the stake but i never felt obligated to pay because i lost the stake and i didnt stole it. Yeah you will say i am an asshole but this is how i was thinking. Now i am paying back because there was some that i really respect his opinion and give me to understand clearly where i am wrong
My point is, unless i have misread, you dont mention how he scammed you. Did he lost the stake? Did he stole the stake? It is very difficult to judge without knowing the story. I think it is very difficult to take the money back because poker has not legal rules. You cant give this person in the police or something
The only way to take your money back is to really make this person understand that he is wrong. It is a funny thing that every person is different and you have to push the right buttons. Some persons work better with pressure/fear or whatever but some others work better if you hit them emotically
You just have to push the right buttons. If you thing he will work better with fear put a gun in his head. If you thing he will work better with emotion try to put him in your place. It is not as simple as it sounds
For me the second worked. They told me: If you were in stakers place and someone lost your stake playing something else, you would like to have your money back right? So why you dont try to pay them back? How you feel if you were the one with the lost money? This worked
But every person is very different and you have to push the right buttons
a) most of the money is not from a staking
b) staking itself hasn't been lost. he still plays with my money. literally. or at least parts of it, rest has been cashed out ofc ♦ FML
c) we tried the nice way, more than once. ask dyl and tln .... and yes, we told him it is wrong
d) if you find the right "button" and get our moniez back, you will get a few hours of private coaching for free my friend


